Respectful Relationships

Respectful Relationships - Week 4

Secondary·Years 7–10

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Overview

Respectful Relationships

Year 9–10 Introduction

Deepening self-awareness, challenging assumptions, and strengthening respectful connections

Students in Years 9 and 10 are navigating a transformative stage of adolescence. Identity becomes more complex, friendships become more influential, and young people begin to make independent choices that shape their well-being, relationships, and future pathways. Social pressures, online interactions, and emerging romantic relationships all become more significant during this time.

This curriculum supports students in developing the critical thinking, emotional skills, and respectful relationship behaviours they need to thrive with confidence, empathy, and integrity.

Core Learning Objectives

Emotional Literacy & Awareness

Deepen emotional awareness by recognising complex feelings and understanding their impact on decision-making.

Explore how thoughts, beliefs, and assumptions shape emotional responses.

Develop empathy through interpreting emotions in peers, communities, and real-world contexts.

Identity, Strengths & Personal Values

Support students to explore who they are becoming and how their values shape choices and relationships.

Use strengths-based reflection to build confidence, resilience, and a strong sense of self.

Encourage students to consider how their strengths contribute to collaboration, leadership, and well-being.

Positive Coping, Boundaries & Self-Care

Promote healthy strategies for managing stress, pressure, conflict, and emotional overwhelm.

Explore realistic self-care, personal limits, and the importance of boundaries in friendships, family relationships, and early dating.

Help students evaluate which coping strategies are helpful and which may be harmful.

Critical Thinking, Problem-Solving & Ethical Decision-Making

Teach frameworks that help students analyse complex social situations with clarity and responsibility.

Explore long-term consequences, personal values, consent, and ethical considerations in their decision-making.

Engage students in scenarios relating to digital behaviour, group dynamics, relationships, and social justice.

Stress Management & Healthy Habits

Identify personal stress triggers and patterns that emerge in school, relationships, identity exploration, and daily life.

Understand how lifestyle choices, sleep, exercise, and social environments influence well-being.

Practise habits and routines that cultivate long-term mental and emotional health.

Gender, Power & Identity

Critically examine the impact of gender norms, stereotypes, and social expectations on relationships and opportunities.

Explore intersectionality, how multiple identities (culture, gender, sexuality, ability, socioeconomic background) shape experiences.

Challenge bias and promote inclusive behaviours that strengthen safe, respectful school communities.

Healthy, Respectful & Safe Relationships

Analyse the qualities of healthy, unhealthy, and unsafe relationships across face-to-face and digital settings.

Understand power imbalances, coercion, consent, communication, and trust.

Develop skills in assertiveness, boundary-setting, conflict resolution, and navigating early romantic relationships safely.

Help-Seeking, Support Networks & Rights

Normalise accessing support for mental health, relationships, identity concerns, and safety.

Identify trusted adults, peers, and external services, and practise approaching them with confidence.

Strengthen students’ understanding of their rights to safety, respect, and equitable treatment, and how to advocate for themselves and others.

Years 9–10 is all about:
  • Deepening emotional intelligence and self-understanding
  • Exploring identity, personal values, and strengths
  • Practising healthy coping, boundaries, and self-care
  • Thinking critically, ethically, and calmly under pressure
  • Challenging stereotypes, inequality, and harmful norms
  • Building healthy, safe friendships and early relationships
  • Knowing their rights, and seeking help when needed
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Healthy or Harmful?
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52 Shades of Consent Snap
Gratitude
Deal or No Deal – Relationship Edition
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VICVictorian Curriculum v2.0 (PSC + HPE) · planning codes by activity

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Personal & Social Capability and HPE Version 2.0, VCAA, used by Victorian schools.

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  • VC2CP8S02Levels 7–8: How to distinguish between productive and unproductive coping strategies; strategies for peer support and empathetic communication during adversity.
  • VC2CP8O04Levels 7–8: Situations that benefit from collaboration; strategies for setting team goals; and ways team members can support one another to achieve goals.
  • VC2CP10O05Levels 9–10: When and how to adapt skills and strategies to prevent, defuse or resolve conflict within and between groups in different contexts.
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  • VC2CP8S03Levels 7–8: Strategies for reflecting on and developing personal strengths in different contexts; connecting personal interests to broader life/careers.
  • VC2CP8O03Levels 7–8: Factors that affect how personal and group relationships are expressed and experienced, including personal boundaries, intimacy, distribution of power and social expectations.
  • VC2CP10O03Levels 9–10: Personal, social and cultural factors that influence the ability to experience respectful relationships; the rights and responsibilities of individuals in relationships.
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  • VC2CP8S01Levels 7–8: Ways to recognise emotional complexity and its causes and consequences.
  • VC2CP10S01Levels 9–10: Ways to analyse and evaluate emotional complexity in different contexts and from different perspectives.
  • VC2CP10S04Levels 9–10: How to identify and adapt strategies for improving confidence, adaptability and perseverance, considering personal and social enablers and barriers.
View official curriculum →Victorian Curriculum F–10 v2.0
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